Covenant Eyes support@covenanteyes.com https://video.covenanteyes.com en-us Visualplatform http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Covenant Eyes episodic no https://video.covenanteyes.com/files/rv0.0/sitelogo.gif https://video.covenanteyes.com http://video.covenanteyes.com/8-ways-to-rebuild-trust-with-your <p>I talk to men all the time who feel like they are hopelessly hooked on porn, and they really want to break free from it. For married men, they also have the added stress of: “How do I help my wife trust me again?” They know their secrecy and porn use has caused a real rift in their marriage, and they just don’t know what to do to rebuild trust.</p> <p>I want to give you 8 real concrete ideas about what to do and what not to do. Keep in mind: building trust takes time. These aren’t quick fixes, but they are steps in the right direction.</p><p><a href="http://video.covenanteyes.com/8-ways-to-rebuild-trust-with-your"><img src="http://video.covenanteyes.com/60445029/63915018/44d7f6fb8afe51b2631809bd1291243e/standard/download-3-thumbnail.jpg" width="600" height="338"/></a></p> http://video.covenanteyes.com/photo/63915018 Mon, 03 Aug 2020 15:11:51 GMT 8 Ways to Rebuild Trust With Your Wife I talk to men all the time who feel like they are hopelessly hooked on porn, and they really want to break free from it. For married men, they also have the added stress of: “How do I help my wife trust me again?” They know their secrecy and porn use has caused a real rift in their marriage, and they just don’t know what to do to rebuild trust. I want to give you 8 real concrete ideas about what to do and what not to do. Keep in mind: building trust takes time. These aren’t quick fixes, but they are steps in the right direction. I talk to men all the time who feel like they are hopelessly hooked on porn, and they really want to break free from it. For married men, they also have the added stress of: “How do I help my wife trust me again?” They know their secrecy and porn... Covenant Eyes 07:47 <p>I talk to men all the time who feel like they are hopelessly hooked on porn, and they really want to break free from it. For married men, they also have the added stress of: “How do I help my wife trust me again?” They know their secrecy and porn use has caused a real rift in their marriage, and they just don’t know what to do to rebuild trust.</p> <p>I want to give you 8 real concrete ideas about what to do and what not to do. Keep in mind: building trust takes time. These aren’t quick fixes, but they are steps in the right direction.</p><p><a href="http://video.covenanteyes.com/8-ways-to-rebuild-trust-with-your"><img src="http://video.covenanteyes.com/60445029/63915018/44d7f6fb8afe51b2631809bd1291243e/standard/download-3-thumbnail.jpg" width="600" height="338"/></a></p> Addiction Addictive Husband pornographic film Pornography Rebuild Rebuild Trust Trust Wife http://video.covenanteyes.com/how-to-confess-your-porn-addiction <p>Don’t forget to pray. Ask God to prepare your spouse’s heart for your confession. Ask the Holy Spirit to be present with both of you during this and subsequent conversations. Pray for protection against the enemy coming in to do more damage to your relationship.</p> <p>Don’t choose your timing poorly. Sometimes when we need to confess something to someone, we want to sneak it in when there’s not much time so the conversation will be over as fast as possible. Don’t drop a bomb and then expect to move on to your next activity. When you confess, make sure you have the time to allow both of you to talk and process as you need in a safe place.</p> <p>Don’t expect forgiveness right away. Yes, we are supposed to forgive one another because we are all sinners and God always forgives us when we ask. Allow for your spouse to be human and know it might take some time for her to come to a place where she forgives you. Also be aware she might verbally say, “I forgive you” but her actions and emotions might not match up with that right away.</p> <p>Don’t go in without a plan for recovery. If you know what you need in order to find freedom from your addiction, let your spouse know how you are actively breaking your addiction. If you are at a total loss for what your next steps should be, enlist the help of a trusted friend, pastor, or counselor.</p> <p>Don’t stop praying. Keep praying individually and together. Pray for yourself and for your spouse. The enemy has many entrances to both the addicted and the spouse, but the power of prayer and the Word of God are strong weapons to keep Satan out and love in.</p> <p>After you confess, you might doubt you did the right thing. But truth is always better than a lie. In order for your marriage to be whole, you and your spouse need to be real with each other. Learn how to best support each other and be mutually invested in each other’s healing and recovery, whether it’s porn or any other thing in the way of a loving, strong, healthy marriage.</p><p><a href="http://video.covenanteyes.com/how-to-confess-your-porn-addiction"><img src="http://video.covenanteyes.com/60650859/63870226/c66488b483ba9f3dc588af1a1c34def1/standard/download-2-thumbnail.jpg" width="600" height="338"/></a></p> http://video.covenanteyes.com/photo/63870226 Tue, 28 Jul 2020 18:09:47 GMT How to Confess Your Porn Addiction to Your Spouse Don’t forget to pray. Ask God to prepare your spouse’s heart for your confession. Ask the Holy Spirit to be present with both of you during this and subsequent conversations. Pray for protection against the enemy coming in to do more damage to your relationship. Don’t choose your timing poorly. Sometimes when we need to confess something to someone, we want to sneak it in when there’s not much time so the conversation will be over as fast as possible. Don’t drop a bomb and then expect to move on to your next activity. When you confess, make sure you have the time to allow both of you to talk and process as you need in a safe place. Don’t expect forgiveness right away. Yes, we are supposed to forgive one another because we are all sinners and God always forgives us when we ask. Allow for your spouse to be human and know it might take some time for her to come to a place where she forgives you. Also be aware she might verbally say, “I forgive you” but her actions and emotions might not match up with that right away. Don’t go in without a plan for recovery. If you know what you need in order to find freedom from your addiction, let your spouse know how you are actively breaking your addiction. If you are at a total loss for what your next steps should be, enlist the help of a trusted friend, pastor, or counselor. Don’t stop praying. Keep praying individually and together. Pray for yourself and for your spouse. The enemy has many entrances to both the addicted and the spouse, but the power of prayer and the Word of God are strong weapons to keep Satan out and love in. After you confess, you might doubt you did the right thing. But truth is always better than a lie. In order for your marriage to be whole, you and your spouse need to be real with each other. Learn how to best support each other and be mutually invested in each other’s healing and recovery, whether it’s porn or any other thing in the way of a loving, strong, healthy marriage. Don’t forget to pray. Ask God to prepare your spouse’s heart for your confession. Ask the Holy Spirit to be present with both of you during this and subsequent conversations. Pray for protection against the enemy coming in to do more damage to... Covenant Eyes 03:32 <p>Don’t forget to pray. Ask God to prepare your spouse’s heart for your confession. Ask the Holy Spirit to be present with both of you during this and subsequent conversations. Pray for protection against the enemy coming in to do more damage to your relationship.</p> <p>Don’t choose your timing poorly. Sometimes when we need to confess something to someone, we want to sneak it in when there’s not much time so the conversation will be over as fast as possible. Don’t drop a bomb and then expect to move on to your next activity. When you confess, make sure you have the time to allow both of you to talk and process as you need in a safe place.</p> <p>Don’t expect forgiveness right away. Yes, we are supposed to forgive one another because we are all sinners and God always forgives us when we ask. Allow for your spouse to be human and know it might take some time for her to come to a place where she forgives you. Also be aware she might verbally say, “I forgive you” but her actions and emotions might not match up with that right away.</p> <p>Don’t go in without a plan for recovery. If you know what you need in order to find freedom from your addiction, let your spouse know how you are actively breaking your addiction. If you are at a total loss for what your next steps should be, enlist the help of a trusted friend, pastor, or counselor.</p> <p>Don’t stop praying. Keep praying individually and together. Pray for yourself and for your spouse. The enemy has many entrances to both the addicted and the spouse, but the power of prayer and the Word of God are strong weapons to keep Satan out and love in.</p> <p>After you confess, you might doubt you did the right thing. But truth is always better than a lie. In order for your marriage to be whole, you and your spouse need to be real with each other. Learn how to best support each other and be mutually invested in each other’s healing and recovery, whether it’s porn or any other thing in the way of a loving, strong, healthy marriage.</p><p><a href="http://video.covenanteyes.com/how-to-confess-your-porn-addiction"><img src="http://video.covenanteyes.com/60650859/63870226/c66488b483ba9f3dc588af1a1c34def1/standard/download-2-thumbnail.jpg" width="600" height="338"/></a></p> Addiction Being Married to an Addict block porn Confess Confessing Confession Covenant Eyes Marriage and Pornography Porn Addiction Porn Addiction Recovery Pornography and Marraige Rebuild Trust Recovery Relationship Building